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Celebrating the 4th of July with a Child with Autism

7/5/2015

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Each year, the Fourth of July holiday brings us together as a nation to commemorate our adoption of the Declaration of Independence.  Many of us celebrate this patriotic holiday with picnic barbecues, trips to the beach, and the exciting views of the sparkling, shimmering and crackling sounds of bright fireworks.  As a family, we’ve always enjoyed watching the fireworks, huddled together in silence and awe of the spectacular light show in the sky.  It took years of trial and error to be able to continue this tradition with our son, Richie, who has autism, but absolutely loves all fireworks shows – despite the challenges he has to overcome.   For many families of children with autism, the fun event is often cut short due to sensory melt-downs triggered by large crowds, smells, and long stretches of uneventful wait-times until the anticipated light show begins.  Some children enjoy the visual effects, but struggle with the sound of crackling, loud booming explosives.

Create an Action Plan

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We created an action plan that has been well polished over the years, as Richie’s sensory triggers evolved with time.  Today, we continue to enjoy the mesmerizing light show as a family. We hope these ideas work for your family too!
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Research and Prepare​

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Often times, there’s more than one location featuring the fireworks show (park, beach, theme park, etc.). Find out about firework times, restroom locations, and whether or not there’s other festivities happening (fairs, festivals, or parades). Find out about parking – how far a walk it is from the site, and whether or not you pay to park closer to the event site.  Knowing as much about the location will help you to plan accordingly, as well as gage and determine arrival and departure times. 
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Talk about the Event

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Discuss the event details (step-by-step) with your child. If you need to, use pictures to describe what is to be expected.  You can even try a practice run by finding fireworks shows on YouTube.  We were able to enhance this strategy by adding surround sound to the television, simulating the loud sounds of a true light show.

This strategy would also help to develop a tolerance to the loud explosive sounds, but please remember to be patient and stop if the experience is an unpleasant one for your child.  We were able to use this strategy with Richie in small doses. 

​That being said, please make sure to give your child the option of not going.  Richie’s speech is extremely limited, so I used pictures to ask him of his preference (he always chose to go to the live show!). 
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Make things Comfortable


Whether you plan to just attend the light show, or spend the entire day at the event location, you’ll want to make sure everyone is comfortable.  Be sure to bring blankets, chairs, drinks, snacks and food, if the location allows it.  No one knows your child better than you do, so you know what activities or items will make him or her happy (comfort toy, noise cancelling head-phones, iPad or video game device, fidget toys, etc.).
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Make a Crisis Plan 


It’s very possible that undesirable behaviors will surface, you can plan ahead for this by brainstorming together as a family.  I believe firmly in using Positive Behavior Supports. By planning ahead, you can overcome many challenging behaviors.

Discuss the circumstance that will possibly trigger a behavior (noise, crowds, hunger, etc.). What behavior would you expect? How have you handled it in the past? How will you handle it at the event? What methods have worked in the past with noisy crowds? Can they be used in at this location?  Will you be able to retreat to a quiet place nearby if needed? What soothes your child when you see signs of him or her getting upset?

It would be a good idea to have a contingency plan if things become too overwhelming for your child in case it's best for him or her to leave the setting. I can't tell you how many times I've traveled in different cars so we can leave if things became too difficult for Richie. Doing this makes sure the rest of the family can enjoy the event and Richie won't have to suffer through anything that makes him uncomfortable or causes him pain. 

​For us, Richie would crack up laughing if we repeated sounds he made (I think he does this for his own amusement, because we sound absolutely ridiculous!).  But it worked every time.  

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Please note that opting out of going outdoors and enjoying fireworks in the comfort of your home is a fine idea too! Before we learned to be strategic about how to handle firework celebrations, we had family nights at home, playing games we knew Richie would enjoy, and we had fun all the same.
Please remember that having fun means something different to all of us. For me, curling up with a book by the beach is enjoyable – but that might bore another person into an eternal slumber.  For my son, it’s watching his favorite shows on YouTube, over and over again. The most important thing is to have fun together as a family, no matter what you choose to do.  Our children will always cherish the days spent laughing and smiling, while surrounded by family members they love. Those are the days best remembered.

Sincerely, Christine SensoryFriends

4 Comments
tara pittman
7/3/2015 04:53:21 am

It is good that you are prepared. I remember when my kids were little and the noise of the fireworks would upset them.

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Maybelline @ Naturalmente Mamá link
7/3/2015 08:50:09 am

Great tips! I think overall, talking with kids about events in general, helps them know what to expect and what is expected from them.

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Diana Rodriguez link
7/3/2015 06:08:12 pm

Thanks for sharing! God Bless!

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Mayra Rodríguez link
7/5/2015 03:27:34 am

Love to see your approach to this. My boys doesn't have any sensory problem, but the oldest was always very sensitive to certain sounds when he was young. The funny thing is that one of his strong learning methods is auditory and is great in music.

I like your tips and ideas on how to handle this. And I like when you say: "Please note that opting out of going outdoors and enjoying fireworks in the comfort of your home is a fine idea too!"

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